them.
Years of unchecked behavior had taught them I would always step in before consequences arrived.
So they stopped preparing for consequences.
They expected rescue.
That is where respect begins disappearing.
Quietly.
Gradually.
Until one day it is gone.
Here’s what I learned.
Being needed is not the same as being valued.
People can depend on you without respecting you.
They can rely on you while taking advantage of everything you provide.
The only part of that pattern I could directly control was my participation in it.
I couldn’t force
