My Grandmother Insisted on Flying Economy Instead of First Class, Then I Found Out Why a Pilot Needed to See Her

A year earlier, on Grandma’s seventy-ninth birthday, I had asked what she wanted for her eightieth.

I expected something simple.

Dinner.

A sweater.

Maybe something for her garden.

Instead, she put down her fork and said,

“I want to go to San Francisco.”

I stared at her.

“San Francisco?”

“To visit your mother.”

My mother had lived in California since before I was born.

I grew up in Oakland and only returned to Boston for nursing school.

I stayed because Grandma was alone.

“You haven’t flown in decades,” I reminded