My Mom Showed Up to My Fancy Engagement Dinner in an Old Dress, but She Had a Reason Nobody Expected

belonged in.”

“And she’s been talking to that category all night instead of talking to me.”

I began understanding.

Mom continued.

“That means I now know something important about her.”

“What?”

“She can be fair when someone fits inside a category she respects. She becomes less fair when they don’t.”

She paused.

“And now I also know something important about James.”

“What?”

“He sees you.”

I looked at her.

“Not your background. Not my dress. Not your family’s income. You.”

She continued.

“I’ve been thinking about this dinner for two